Sometimes we issue the blame for our problems on others, and while they might have caused the pain or negative emotions, we are responsible for staying that way. When someone hurts you they go on about their lives as if it never happened. We carry with us the emotional scars. Sometimes we just have to know when to let go. Let go of the “ain’t shit” people in our lives, and the situations that are not beneficial to a happy life.
I’m not taking away from any one’s situations, or hurt, because I’ve been there too. I’ve spent a lot of time hurting or being upset about situations I can’t control, and it hasn’t done me any good. If you can’t control what happens in a situation, you can’t blame yourself for it. Sitting around down about that situation won’t make things in your life change. If you want your life to change, you have to do it yourself. Friends, Family, Boyfriends/girlfriends, jobs are all things that can help you be happy, but being happy starts with you. Life happens to us, so it’s how we react and adapt to life situations that makes us have better life experiences.
Just some thoughts/opinions running through my mind…
